Meeting A Female
My fellow men question me about " seducing women " and "how to relate to women " and similar things all the time .
But frankly the best answer for all of these sort of questions is "experience."
But naturally the next question is how do you get experience if you don't know how to meet women?
You do it by meeting women and approaching women any way you can in large droves. It is called serial dating. And when I authored my first book "How I Got 700 Dates In One Year" it caused a little controversy.
Before anything else, let me explain that I am very big on monogamy and have never cheated on a wife or girlfriend, but when I am between important relationships I am equally big on multiple or serial dating.
Now I would be the first one to agree with the fact that a person who "multiple"¯ or "serial"¯ dates with no objective of ever doing anything else would have at least some major "relating"¯ issues.
However, serial and multiple dating is not only not necessarily a bad thing, if done with a purpose to learn about the opposite sex, it is a good thing. By heavy and steady interaction with the opposite sex we can learn about both the opposite sex and about ourselves.
Do you remember what good old mom and dad use to say to you when you were a teenager?
"Don't get too serious with one person. You need to meet and date different people.
It may seem immature, but this teenage advice is what most adults who are looking for a mate need to remember.
First of all, most adults never followed their parent's recommendation and dated lots of people. Most people seem to have a pattern of hooking up with the first acceptable¯ person who shows them some real interest.
But bear in mind, there is a difference between "acceptable¯" and "ideal"¯ and also sad to say most people normally continue this routine of hooking up with the first "acceptable"¯ person who comes along well into maturity.
We call this "settling".
We call this "compromising".
We call this all sorts of names years later when we realize we aren't happy.
Most of us didn't realize when we were teenagers that there are all sorts of people in the world - different personalities, different likes and dislikes. We didn't realize that if we met enough people we actually could meet someone who was precisely right for us.
Most of us didn't even have an understanding of our own nature and what what would be a good match for us. We based our ideas of what a good match was off of television and movies and magazines. You see most of us just lacked experience with the opposite sex.
But the cure for all of this is not very complex. You see, when you meet and date a lot of different people a natural learning process emerges. It is called experience. No matter how dumb you are, you figure it out sooner or later. Some people sooner. Some people later. You can learn about anything this way, and there is no better teacher.
And believe it or not, that is all us "dating gurus" have ever successfully done to meet women and attract women . We have just gone out there and got a lot of experience.
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